AudEmo

that’s what she said

To the people who said things about my height because you truly believe you’re better than me, to hurt me (sorry, not you anonymous fuckers btw because you can’t stab someone standing too far away) —

well congratulations, you succeeded.

I doubted myself for a day.

Comments (98)

  • wtf? who the hell would be so mean?

    im a really petite girl myself, and sometimes the height jokes do cross the line sometimes (i jz wish those ppl would shut up cuz its not even funny). i wouldnt hide the fact that i pissed!

    and its true.. being taller doesnt make u a better person at all =D

    hope u cheer up babe.. ur not alone!

  • I feel u, since i was a child, many times I cried under my blanket as the aunty uncle make fun of my height, having low self-esteem for years…

    when I grown up, I am thankful for one fact, that I was born a short girl, but not a guy :p we have got pretty heels, wedges, platform.. love em all…

    but seriously from the pictures, u r cute and pretty… fourfeetnine is your trademark, an outstanding and unique one..

  • :O i didn’t realised there are people who are so insensitive!!!!!!! I understand how u feel.. it hurts a lot.. =( Some people just don’t think about what they say.. -_- seriously, WTH! argh stupid!

    Your blog rocks btw! πŸ˜€ I love it lots!!

  • *hugs* cheer up, just because they’re taller it doesn’t mean that they’re better πŸ™‚

  • its alright!! i’m 19 and im 154cm only and i always get teased too, since pri sch till now wtf. dont let them bring you down!! short girls are cute hahaha πŸ™‚

  • Hey! Cheer up! You mention it yourself, they’re the fuckers, so don’t let this fuckers put you down! You’re great the way you are! Cheers =D

  • hey babe… being shorter than normal is not a defect, it is a unique feature. Anyone who loves you any less because of this is not worth your attention at all. Accepting no one is perfect is a good start =) And remember that u have so many other good qualities that outshine other, that is and should be your self esteem booster!

  • i’m 1.55m onlyyy. my best gfs are ard the same height. heehee…it’s no big deal really. cheer up πŸ™‚

  • Maybe it’s just PMS that makes you doubt yourself. Height doesnt really matter. You have got so many other qualities that they dont have okay? AND they are most prolly just jealous of you! SO dont be bothered! cos life is too short for you to care about someone who is borned with a foul mouth >.<

  • cheer up Aud!

    what is height anyway when you have tons of other things such as the opportunity of studying in the states, a loving family, friends and a bf who loves you for who you are.

    not to mention that in the looks department, you have plenty lols.

    anyways, I may be tall but some people ALWAYS find ways to put me down about my height too so really its not about the height but just insecure people trying to irritate the hell out of you to make themselves feel better.

    and then when you have the perfect height ah, they would zoom in on your looks. you have looks, they go and zoom in on your body. body also perfect? BUT AHA HER BF NOT HANDSOME LAH BLABLABLA ah and the lists goes on wtf.

    you can never beat jealous/mean people because they are so overly critical and would magnify that speck of dust in your hair to the size of a ball of yarn wtf.

    Always talk as if they don’t have any flaws of their own wtf.

    at the end of the day, you look at your life and people around you that truly care and just learn to brush off meaningless/useless remarks like those.

    next time, tell them to piss off and go stuff all their insipid comments into their pretentious pipe and smoke it thankyouverymuch.

  • hahah I can’t believe people are using your height to try to put you down. It’s not as if you’re unproportional!
    Maybe they’re tall but extremely ugly so they want to feel they have something!
    And you should have said to the aunt, “I only look like a kid when compared to how old you look, auntie.” πŸ˜› But I know, neither of us would realistically say that! It’s the consequence of having manners, unlike her.

  • Some people will always find something negative to say about someone. It doesn’t matter how perfect or imperfect you are, they just get off by saying mean things about other people. So happens that for these people, saying that you’re short or fat or anything obvious like that seems the easiest insult to say about someone when they feel like making a personal attack.

    I never thought any of these things would bother you. You were the same height as you are now when I first met you and I always thought you were one of the most confident girls I have ever met.

    Think of all the other things you have going your way, how you are smart, how you’re a very likeable person, how you’re funny, how you blog well (far better than me) and how you have a good heart. Then you’ll realize that all this overshadows the little shortfall in your height.

    Don’t fret darling. *sayang*

  • who is that mean person??
    Tell me.. I go Karate him/her!!
    =.=”, kidding~

    Ignore that idiot la..
    he/she just jealous u have a pretty face.. =)
    cheer up sweetie~

  • I don’t usually comment but~
    just to let u know…u may be short in height but those who make these childish remarks just shows that they are short the brain bar is in their skull. Remarks like those just openly show how low and narrow minded humans can get.

    Height is not everything. It’s what in the brains and ppl around u that matters. And u my friend is very TALL in that department.
    nuff said. U rawk on girl!

  • hey hey! we are not short, we are just fin sized πŸ˜‰

  • im so sorry, i tried to delete the last comment.

    i meant “fun” sized πŸ™‚

  • Whoever said that about you is just jealous about you, because not only you have such a fun family, loving boyfriend and great friends (and soulmate!), you have a big heart too, bigger than most people =)

    I’m not a tall girl myself, and oh how I envy girls who are tall and look great in long pants (because they have long legs), and…I got tease a lot of time by people who are shorter than me! huh! Eg: “Eventhough you are taller than me, but actually you are not that tall also!”

    Please don’t let those shallow people hurt your feelings. They are not worth it. Because you know you ARE better than them in most other way. =)

  • dun care lah, you’re still hawt & cute! some ppl criticize others just to make themselves feel better geh..and these ppl hor..are actually feeling very insecure about themselves one. dun be their victim of insecurity k..we love u for u πŸ™‚

  • what happened ???
    aud, life’s goes on – karma ! … who’s these people btw ? if they are ur blog reader – who cares !!!
    if they are your friends, u need to leave them asap …
    when others make that kind of remarks, its jealousy n hatred. u much better than them … be strong n stand up !

  • hey aud, i’ve been ur reader for the past few months πŸ™‚ anywayz, yeh who love backstabbers. sigh* but i actually think height is not an issue. look at xiaxue!!! look at how she brings herself.. πŸ™‚ aud!! height aside! u have wonderful assets!!! beautiful anime eyes, fair skin, nice boobs and super slim!!! u should be grateful!! πŸ™‚ dun even bother listening to them.. they r just being jealous πŸ™‚

  • im short……AND FAT! worse lor! πŸ™

  • Audrey, I’m a reader of your blog.Don’t give a f*ck about what people say about you about your height! Be proud!I know I am, I always been the shortest girl in the class, in my group of friends, and everywhere la. but that doesn’t bother me, you know why? It’s good being petite (let’s not called it short shall we?)
    1. We Look cute
    2. We look younger
    3. We have fun sneaking in the crowd FULL of people, just to get in front of the crowd to see the big celebrity in front!
    4.We get away easier FROM BIG CROWD, cuz no doubt, small people do ‘glide’ away from crowd easier.
    5. We have no problem finding guys who’s at any whatever measure of heights (except for midgets!).
    6. WE CAN WEAR HEELS AS HIGH AS 4 INCH AND WE STILL LOOK GREAT beside our boyfriend!!

    We cab’t control people from what to say about us or what’s not to say about us! So, be proud because you still have great people around to love you as who you are…

    P/S: THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT IS GREATER THAN ANY OF US IS G-O-D!

    You can asked those people to f*ck off!

    Smile k? πŸ™‚

  • Hi Audrey!

    Don’t give a damn about what people say about your height or anything. Ppl aren’t supposed to be judged by their height. Screw them! Those who insult you just because of ur height is just so fcuked up!

    Cheer up!! πŸ˜€
    and remember this quote: “Small is beautiful”? hehehehe..

  • Cheer up Aud.
    Don’t give a damn about what others think.
    you are cute and hawt.
    and u look great as you are with your height.
    πŸ™‚

  • The only reason why people can think of discriminating you with your heights is because they can’t find a better reason to bring you down, so cheer up darling!It only meant you’re far too perfect for that kinda people!

  • it’s perfectly fine to make generic observations about height, ie “oh you’re short”

    but here’s a real live example of being a total arse (kindly note the words in bold):

    quote unquote kristy_tiong@gmail.com (ip address 203.121.91.10) in previous post

    “Honestly, u’re surprised? Err…you ARE short, very very short. It will be sadder if you look old in a short body lol

    why want to further add spiteful words? just to hurt someone you personally don’t know?

  • When someone says things like that to other people it is because THEY have low self esteem and think that by talking down to someone will make themselves feel better. Next time, turn it around on them and take a stand.(example) ” I know you are jealous, and that’s okay. I will not stoop to your level”. You should know that you are a better person than that person will EVER be!!

  • FTW? FTW? just smack em with your handbag say sorry(NOT)… meh~~ just ignore

  • Excuseeee meeeee there is nothing wrong about being short okay, you get to wear pretty heels on a daily basis and not look like a towering giant! Don’t let people bring you down, they’re totally not worth it <3

  • aud, i am ur silent reader.. u are cute n pretty.. just ignore what the say..

  • hey, people also talk about my size. calling me anorexic πŸ™ just dont bother about them. it hurts in the beginning but hey, we look so much cuter than them!!! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  • tall gal here….height is over-rated lah. Tall ones still get called pokok kelapa, giraffe….and we look older than our friends who are our age/ a year older. Ppl ask Wat For we wanna wear high heels…hard to find guys who’re tall enough to date etc etc…

    You’re supercute, funny, and SO much more than just a height.

    Dont ever doubt urself again πŸ™‚
    *hugs*

  • height and weight always the best issues for those shallow and sarcastic peoples.

    couldn’t stop them unless they mute wtf

    *ignore ignore

    cheer up girl!!! πŸ˜€

  • spiteful ppl will always find fault when they’re envious, or to say, jealous of what you have, ur brains, ur looks, ur happiness.

    whether you’re tall or short, slim or meaty, they get their ways.

    it’s either, ‘oh crap, u’re so freaking tall u look like a transversite!’

    or as what kristy did in ur previous post.

    anyhow, if u fare better than spiteful people, u get shits like this from them.

    what’s best is to be confident and believe in urself! from ur posts u are such a confident, nice girl. don’t let them bring u down! =)

  • yea.. im short!!
    so what people??!

    doubt for 1 day only yea Aud.. forget about it the next day ya πŸ™‚

  • WHO SAID THAT?? DON’T WORRY BABY I’LL SETTLE THIS FOR YOU >=(

  • wuiyoo…sweatlee angry.. Aiya, I’ve been called fat since I was small. And I’m not tall either. What to do? When I was younger, I would be very sad, emo few days *but never stop eating wtf*. Now, if they say I fat, I would say ya lo, u so thin la…Good for you.

    It’s not that I want to be fat. I eat as much or even lesser than those thin girls but their metabolism rate just insanely high la. I’m trying hard to lose the kgs. =) I’ve only met you once but I’ve been reading your blog for a year plus and really, I found you cute, smart and very friendly. I think that’s far more important than height.

    What’s the point of having all the beauty and heights but no brain to think about other people’s feelings?

  • those who matters don’t mind; those who mind don’t matter πŸ˜‰

    cheer up aud! πŸ™‚

  • aud! height DOES NOT MATTER OK!
    trust me when i say this .. you’re one of the prettiest girl i’ve ever seen! you’ve got the looks, so who cares about your height! you’re well proportioned, not only the looks you’ve got a sense of humor, you’re smart (i believe so though i don’t know you in person), you’ve got great family, friends and the boyfriend. so why does height really matter? screw those people who make fun of your height. sure, we (i’m 152cm tall) can’t be a flight attendance or we can’t go for modelling. but we do get some compliments too, right? cheer up babe! u’ve got soo much things that i’m quite envious about.:D

  • Cheer up, Audrey.

    Spiteful comments on height, sizes and looks are the only weapon for shallow and fake people. Not every tall girl is smart, oozes confidence and surrounded by happiness.

    Don’t doubt yourself. You never know how many people out there who are envious of you for who you are πŸ™‚

  • but but but! You’re not short! You’re petite πŸ™‚ So much cuter that way.

    But honestly, there is no reason to doubt yourself for being petite. You’re unique, nobody can take that away from you. πŸ™‚

    Cheers!

  • hmm..i’ve lost count on the amount of posts about your height.

    my gf is around your height. who’s taller?

  • Don’t even worry about those comments, you’re so gorgeous it doesn’t matter what height you are. And it’s better because being so tiny makes you look like a doll. I’m jealous πŸ™‚

  • Audrey, my advice to you is IGNORE !! You dont know them, they dont know you… so why bother so much.

    You are who you are and you are SPECIAL !!

    You have a wonderful family, close friends and a fantastic boyfriend. You even have many virtual friends.. also known as faithful readers. I am one of them.

    I dont know you at all except from what I read in your blog. And I dont give a shit about your height or lack of it. It’s not important.

    Listen to the GOOD THINGS and throw out all the BAD THINGS.

    Audrey, you are LARGER than what others say you are. No one can hurt you unless you allow them.

    Chin up gal !! πŸ™‚

  • Audrey, I hope to be as petite as you, babe!! And why bother those fucker bastard asshole’s comment!!!

    Cheer up, and remember this! You’re the best! for ur family, friends, and Tim! Go go Audrey!!

  • Hey, cheer up!
    No matter what people had said about you, just heck about what they say, you have something they do not have, a good character and don’t hurt people by saying things that would hurt them.
    Though I do not know you real life but I feel that you are a nice person in real life? And really, no matter what, height is not the most important thing in life, so don’t care about those who say about you, because they are not worth it.

    Hope you will cheer up soon!!!!!

  • hi audrey. i did not read the comments above, so i hope you don’t mind if i happen to repeat smth that was said alr.

    please do not doubt yourself. you’re fourfeetnine but so? height is not an issue. you’re confident, funny, pretty and your eyes are just sooooo beautiful.

    even if you are ugly/short (which you definitely aren’t), the fact that you do not say nasty things about other people already makes you a better person than they are.

    you shine. continue shining. πŸ™‚

  • cheer up! u shud b happy that the only point they thought they could use to hurt u is something so superficial =)

  • ignore those biatch. they feel so unsecure abt themselves that they have to attack others.

  • Aww… Those people are so mean. I know how it feels like because i myself face the same thing too. Don’t doubt yourself. Shoot them back. Proof them you are on par with them.

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