Someone met 2 friends of mine, A and B, and he said “I know why you can get along better with B.”
“Why ar?”
“Cos she’s prettier and you’re quite superficial”
WTF boohoo why he say that T____________T
Ok I admit I am very superficial and I value appearances alot. And I think most of my close friends are very pretty but that doesn’t mean I choose friends based on their looks…
And it is true that I get along better with B. But I think A is hot too and I think the reason why I get along better with B is because she is she’s quite blur and funny and goofy too and today I laughed with her until I had to squat down on the floor *shifty eyes
A is equally nice but she is very cool and composed and happening and independent ie. nothing in common with me so I just find it easier to talk to B.
But once I had a friend who um wasn’t good looking.
Actually no her face is quite pretty and guys say so too.
But SHE thought she wasn’t goodlooking. She was so obsessed with her weight and appearance! She wasn’t even fat ok she was regular-sized! But she was like 5’7 which btw I think is a very nice height to be ok can wear maxi dresses no problemo senor wtf. So because she was 5’7 and regular sized, she kept comparing herself to me and Angela who are 4’9 and 5’2 respectively and kept coming up with the conclusion that she was huge.
Because she thought she was fat, she had no confidence in herself. It didn’t help that she was very shy in talking to guys also. So she made me and Angela’s lives miserable T_______T
Every time at a party if a guy went up to one of us (and not her) her face would turn black like… a coal mine wtf. And she would whisper to other people snide things about us.
Sometimes if I wore something extra cute to class for no reason also I would have to brace myself for her sneers and comments -_-
Dunno how she did it but she somehow made it so that I always felt guilty for being cuter than her or for taking more care with my appearance than her =.=
One day I got sick of it. I did really like her as a friend because she was smart and funny and when she wanted to she could be nice. But my mood would always be pulled down by her sour faces and remarks so in the end I talked to her about it.
And she apologized and said she felt that she was fat and it didn’t help that all her friends would just go “Oh no don’t worry you are not fat at all you are so skinny compared to me” etc etc when she said all she really wanted was someone to acknowledge what she felt about herself and help her with it.
So I said okay if you really don’t like the way you are I’ll help you then. I’ll help you control your diet or make sure you go to the gym or whatever.
And she said ok thank you.
But then after that if I ever said “Ei don’t take so much fries you’re on a diet” she would either scold me or ignore me what is the point of me trying to help then -_-
And then I felt like a bitch for not letting people eat when they wanted to and also I sounded like I was reminding her that she was fat all the time so I just gave up.
And then when she found other friends (fatter friends I might add — one of the girls she hung out with would eat an onigiri, 2 juice boxes, a sandwich, chocolate and cookies everyday in class. For breakfast wtf. Maybe that girl made my friend feel better about herself.) , she ignored me and Angela and sometimes we’d notice her and her new friends pointing and looking at us from afar and laughing -_____-
Already tried to help her but get scolded and made fun of for no bloody good reason!
(I might also add that the girl who ate an entire convenience store everyday for breakfast also clearly suffered from terrible self esteem problems. She didn’t act like it whenever she made fun of me and Angela and other people, but if you weren’t having self esteem issues would you have sex with random men (lots of them) you meet on the subway? I rest my case wtf)
After that Angela and I angrily swore we would never be friends with ugly people again wtf. Not that we mean ugly people of course but just people who have no self-esteem and who keep thinking they’re ugly (EVEN IF THEY’RE NOT) because god they will be a drain on your emotional wellbeing.
It is true! I will never again touch someone with self esteem issues with a ten foot pole. Do you know how tiring it is to keep having to assure someone that they are not ugly at all actually quite beautiful. Or having to feel guilty just because the other person thinks you look better than them? Do you see me making other people miserable just because I am a midget?
So because of this that Someone thinks I just discriminate against whoever I think is ugly wtf. Which is so not true!
It’s not about looks it’s about confidence! Like how none of my exes were good looking ok all my friends can attest strongly to that but they were all supremely confident to the point of being cocky…
(Aih something tells me I will get in trouble for this post)
Here you want ugly I’ll give you ugly wtf.
Comments (34)
it is quite tired to keep caring for other friends feeling. Some more you are caring for a useless point… pity you!
WOAH! that pic is really ugly Lol, okie so this post is about confidence, some people are just natural with confidence and some..well, some just need help Lol
hahahaha… good ending!
eh eh wht is tht video about ah! OH I WAS FILMING IT! I ASKED EVERYONE TO GIVE THEIR UGLIEST FACE OR SOMETHING HAHAHA SEND TO ME!
hahah your hair damn oily and stringy and your eyeliner all smudged edi ahahha
and tht’s jerry’s pajamas wtf
eh doesnt she read ur blog?
WHY ONLY PIC.. i wanna see the vid… *O*
just this blog is enough to make me shiver all over again
I can understand your friend who has low self-esteem but why she ended up laughing at you??? So weird. Does laughing at your cuteness makes her feel better about herself?
And yes, NEVER ASK PEOPLE TO JAGA YOUR DIET AND SCOLD PEOPLE WHEN PEOPLE DO. So weird one. I mean I have low self-esteem too but I don’t think I go around asking my friends to acknowledge that I am big(they can do it without me asking wtf). Your that friend not only has low self-esteem, she is very weird also!!!!!
(yeah does she read your blog =0 )
and i think YOU’RE the fairest of them all /shy *magic mirror on the wall wtf
TROUBLE IS GOOD wtf no la I quote 90210:
Silver: Isn’t that what (trouble) blogs are supposed to do?
heheheh anyway I understand why you would be angry! stupid la some people go to that extent. But its okay cos all my friends are good looking or more better looking wtf but instead of hating them I admire them for it 🙂
anyway happy chinese new year- soon!
have u gotten pineapple tarts yet, random haha but those things ROCK!!
I also have a lot of friends with self esteem problems and I’m so fabulous what you expect me to tell them> eh fuck off la if u think u ugly u damn chat ugly wtf.. like that mehh!! Sumore got one even ask me to go punch skinny girls wtf omg T________T thats why i only have like one best friend who shares the same fate as I have T___T
“shallow Hal wants a gal”
There….the curse is broken…
Even “ugly” people will look like angels to you. hahahahahaha…
They are what they(THINK)are.
Happy Moo Moo to all you guys and gals…soon.
Ya, i feel those ppl who have low self esteem is their own problem. When friends are trying to help, they are not being appreciated by the sincere efforts but in the way round, being ill treated and blamed for being prettier, slimmer or smarter than them. True friends weren’t supposed to let jealousy ruin their friendship. A worthy frenship with both party are sure of themselves and respect each other for who they are and their uniqueness, pretty or not pretty is not matter.
Hey, i admire you for this post cos i have a friend like that too.
No matter what you do is just wrong in their eyes so yea 🙂
hahahahahaha its no gd i can still see potential beauty in the god awful face
WTF!!!!! LAST PHOTO!!!!
Can we have the video?
emm…I have friends who have very low self-esteem and sometimes I do have too. But it is really not wrong to have that. But to laugh at people is very mean and stupid.
I usually will control my “meaty” friends diet and they listened. So I am still lucky…it is very childish of them to be jealous of you. Coz I will be proud to have a beautiful friend like you and would like to improve myself by any means.
hiew: yea:(
tommy: yea that’s me in my natural habitat wtf
nicole: haha thanks!
suet: it was make our designated sounds! wtf. haha i dont think she reads me anymore
gin: cannot somebody would kill me for posting the video!
angie: yea for the times we lived in fear T_T
ping ping: yea la she asked me to watch her diet ok TT
jammie: dont think so! anyway im not disclosing who she is so she shouldnt be angry
abby: happy cny! er no i dont like cny cookies:D
mustardqueen: punch skinny girls WTF HAHAHAHA FOR WHAT
august: i agree:)
daphne: thank u:)
ap: awwww hahaha are u deluding yourself wtf
yh: HAHAH CANNOT …ur boss will kill me 🙁
i hate people like that too. it’s like you need to constantly assure them that they’re not fat/ugly/stupid/etc. it’s just so tiring to do that ALL THE TIME.
it’s all about self-confidence really, not your looks. when you feel insecure about yourself, it shows. being someone who used to have really low self-esteem, i know it’s something that can be changed. you just have to be able to recognise that you have issues and make the change yourself.
Audrey, I stole a quote from you!!!!
Maybe she just doesnt have much confident with herself and perhaps a little jealous because you guys are thinner than her…so she might feel more comfortable to mix with people around her size more…just wish her all the best of luck in finding good friends that will suit her more! 🙂
i dont get it why ur friend would say sumtin like tht at the first pl. some of ur blog full of ur ‘friends’ that said horrible things to u.
uv no responsibility to care 4 sum1 with attitude like tht. she doesnt appreciate u being her friend.
what i meant ur blog stories ^__^
that friend was such a bitch she should just eat a ten foot sandwich so she dies from eating and cannot complain again wtf.
and the last photo damn scary wtfwtf.
wtffff……. haha u did well in this hahaha! got more uglier ?jkjk !
I know which girl you talking about. Actually if you wanna look ugly, just not wear makeup. That would really scare the crap out of me.
mike: are you that fatso’s friend because if you are then you can talk to the hand wtf.
oh btw audrey is being nice by calling her regular sized! audrey is nice but i am here to speak the truth: she is NOT regular sized she’s actually tua chiak like anything wtf
Yeah be a ghetto bitch tze.
MIKE FOO: i think you might actually be the most mentally unstable and annoying person i have ever had the misfortune to encounter. 1stly, you have no fucking idea who this girl is because i have never mentioned her on my blog before.
2ndly, you clearly have some sort of multiple personality disorder because you alternate between leaving sickly sweet (to the point of sarcasm) comments and childish insults on my blog and suet’s.
seriously do yourself a favor and get some psychiatric help i think there really could be something wrong with your mind.
hmm i think, some people pretend to have low self-esteem to gain attention and score a compliment or two. and i feel that she was being mean because she believes having low self-esteem justifies her behaviour. heck i have really low self-esteem but i do not impose it on other people like she did. she’s just being ridiculous and dumb to throw away your friendship like that.
That photo of you is super ‘siak si ren’!!! Haha.. but super you!
However, I dont think you’re superficial AT ALL!
sigh~ wanna cny liau.. must pretty pretty, babe! dun k what they think! 😀
i totally get what you’re saying. life is too short to put up with assholes. i’m petite too and HATE working with females simply because they’re always so insecure. sickening. always trying to compare waist/ boob/ thigh sizes. and like you, i simply can’t understand why they don’t get off their unattractive asses to do something about it instead of making everyone else miserable.
p/s: i just started reading your blog and now suddenly miss the malaysian slang so much. keep up the good work!
wow..I’m so ur like ur fren..other than I am not tat tall..hahaahha…but wat i trying to say I am someone tat have no confidence la..so I not sure whether she is those type that need ppl to say something which can boost my confidence…but if i said i wanna diet…it will always be the next time..haha..the example is like wat u say in ur high resolution, lose weight, but then eat fries, even help the fren to finish the fries. no worries, I have frens like u, we concern each other and give each other confidence, n tat fren of mine even r chubbier than us also got more confidence than us…so I GUESS maybe 1 day ur fren will know tat u sincerely treat her good geh 🙂 but I think she shud somehow change her personality on others instead of her confidence 1st…anyway I felt tat u really did ur best d as a fren..so cant care too much liao…
blah, i totally know what u mean. so many women are guilty of this low self-esteem thing, its not even funny. its almost like a club OMG.
on one hand, it could really b their lack of confidence, and on the other, it sometimes feels like they’re fishing for compliments with our replies.
i dont feel sorry for people who feel the need to whine all. the. time. sheesh. there’s only so much reinforcement a friend can give =/