Ok today I finally got mood to blog!
Because something happened yesterday that pissed me off to no end.
Even now thinking about it makes me angry wtf.
Fatty’s friend, Jia, is here in KL for a holiday from Shanghai. So since he was around we decided to take him to Zouk (even though Fatty and I are practically middle aged and our idea of a rockin’ night out is having dinner at a bar.)
So anyway the four of us – the three of us plus Cheesie – were in Zouk (for those uninitiated in the knowledge, Zouk is a club in KL) in Velvet doing our level best to look cool while dancing when this girl shrieked and barrelled her way across the dance floor to Fatty.
She started talking to him (or however much she could since the music was blasting) and trying to shimmy up to him.
I vaguely remembered Fatty introducing me to her the last time we were at Zouk (I guess she’s a frequent customer there) and now when I think about it, I realize she didn’t look too enthusiastic about meeting me and once the introduction was over, never looked at me again wtf.
Last night, however I did not realize this. Cheesie and I were dancing around next to Tim and Jia, and I kept looking over at that girl to try to make eye contact so I could smile at her or join her very animated and focused conversation with Fatty, which is what any normal person with some semblance of social experience would have done if someone comes over to your group of friends.
However, she chose to focus totally on Fatty only and kept on babbling incessantly about god knows what. I didn’t think much about it then either. I thought she must have a lot to catch up on with Fatty.
Then after that I realized that she had grabbed Jia’s hand and pulled him into the conversation with her and her friend and both of them started dancing around Fatty and Jia.
Feeling a little bit confused, I turned to look at Cheesie and that’s when it occurred to me. The reason why we weren’t welcome in her little dance circle is because….we don’t have penises WTF.
While I don’t think many girls are like that, I think there is a small but significant number who think that the only conversations worth having are with men and no other humans.
I’ve bumped into a couple before – women who in speaking in a group tended to only look at the men for affirmation and for answers while being not very interested in what a fellow beaver owner had to say.
Or girls who upon being introduced to a guy, gush their self introductions then go into a protracted conversation about nothing. But when they meet another girl, they just smile and shake their hand but don’t even bother giving their names WTF.
That creeps me out to no end. What does it say about your own self esteem and confidence if you have to rely on a man for affirmation of your self worth or opinions? This is why I hate women WTF.
Ok la no I don’t hate women!!! After all I am one wtf. But I definitely believe that women can be each other’s worst enemy.
Ok fine maybe Dancing Queen isn’t one of those backboneless girls. Maybe she had a crush on Fatty or something which is why she hated my guts on first sight and refused to speak to me.
Like that makes it better!?!??!
Then she’s just being disgustingly rude by not bothering to acknowledge me and Cheesie who were so obviously with Fatty and Jia. Please, a hello or a smile wouldn’t kill you lo what does it hurt to be polite!?!?!
She thinks by ignoring me maybe I will cease to exist is it?
AHAHAHAHHA stupid cat’s face.
Since I haven’t been really blogging about what’s up in Audreyland since Bangkok, here’s a bunch of backdated photos.
They’re all off Instagram because I am addicted to Instagram!!! I’d like to ask you to add me but I don’t know what the link is. My username is Fourfeetnine though.
Me! In case you forget wtf.
My workstation (after an extensive cleanup).
A view of our house renovation. It’s progressed a lot more than this now as you will see later.
Did hair at Shawn Cutler in Damansara Heights (the best outlet!!)
Me and Jammie after our haircuts and dyes.
A little bit of shopping where I got the nicest blazer in the world. Because I can never get any blazers to fit me well 🙁
(dunno why Jammie looks so smug here hahahahaah)
Blazer from Zara. Purple leopard print top from Bangkok. Jeans from Japan.
Souvenirs from my blog readers Ai chan and Chisato from Japan! I have the best readers ever <3 (really should blog more)
Blazer from minimaos. Ripped tank top from Vanity Dreams.
Fatty looking off into the distance wtf.
#addiction power makes us buy the same things from different places <3
Fat Her resembling a fresh daisy in the pajama pants I got him from Bangkok HAHAHAHAHA
Trying out a new look cos I’m sick of my bangs. I have a sneaking suspicion I look bald.
Newly painted room! Walls are pale pink except one feature wall which a darker shade of pink.
Duck rice from PJ which is my favorite food in the entire world. Yes, Japanese food, I regret to tell you that you have taken a back seat to duck rice.
A long day at work in a pitch meeting. It’s physically impossible for me to exist in a non-cute environment.
Also tried pushing bangs to the side.
Went car shopping! Due to my severe lack of height, this car which in actual fact is really the size of a golden retriever, looks like a proper sedan in this picture.
#addiction power again wtf. Minnie Mouse tops from minimaos.
Took up reading in Japanese again.
Cheong k session. Dogs not allowed but Jammie sneaked Yoshi in!
He looks damn cowardly here hahahhaha hiding behind his mommy’s arm. His new name is Courage the Cowardly Dog wtf.
Me and Courage wtf.
Jammie who is the fkn most photogenic person I know. This is how she looks without makeup *emphasizes
The night of the Dancing Queen. With Bobo & #addiction.
I think we’re psychic. Striped black and white shirts…
and identical bow jeans (minimaos)
Save the best picture for last WTF. Nice only because it’s so blurry T______T
Comments (25)
Thanks for updating! Cute pics and hair!
I know what you mean about these women – you see lots of them in Shanghai for some reason. I like women from HK and Singapore – they are assertive and fun. Also, my neighbours are from KL and none of the Malaysian women I know act like this. She must be some cheap loser. Don’t let it upset you.
i ♥ ‘push bangs to the side’ look..looks very elegant!
nice blazer btw! seems like it goes very well with the leopard print top 😉
really like your blog. i laugh at your clumsy moments and how you don’t exercise and when you run abit will say you very tired wtf hahaha. do a blogpost about you and tim’s love story soon pls! And angie or angela (i forget her name) is so pretty with black hair! please try to persuade her not to change to golden hair wtf lol.
OH! my dog name Yoshi too=D
OMG why she so bitchy one. you and cheesie are really bffs! ^^
hahaha “beaver owner” hahaha!! that made my day!!
I have a friend that was like the dancing queen when we were teens (shes now married) and all my other friends hated her…..Some girls don’t notice that they do it, other girls feel like if they don’t have all the male attention in the rom, it’s like a direct threat to their power….dancing queen seems like that insecure type of chick
you look very different in these set of pictures! did you grow prettier while i was away?
and i think since i’ve known you your current hair is the nicest keep it that way seriously don’t do anything anymore
this set of pictures* wtf
oooh this post brings out the bitch in me today!!!!
girls i also hate include: (1) those who act weak and fragile and beg guys to move heavy stuff for them but when with girls, suddenly become Xena and got super human strength to lift cars into air (2) those who act giggly and silly with guys and laugh at everything they say but when with girls, act bored and give one-word replies and ask “can we go home now?” (3) those who act shy and demure and ask innocently “what is blowjob?” wtf in front of guys, but when with girls, curse like a sailor and become a walking sexkepedia wtf
fuck these girls. but what’s most annoying is when the girl is obviously acting like a bitch and you tell the guy, the guy always says “got meh? i think she’s quite cute leh”. grrrrrrr. fuck these stupid and blind guys too wtf.
ok rant overrrrr! thank you for writing this cos you have no idea how long i’ve tahan these stupid girls already!!!! >:(
love all your Instagram shots esp the ZARA blazer!!! lend me can? T.T also, those girls r just insecure bitches. they just need to prove to themselves they too, can get what you have. pfftt -_-|| next chapter please! hahaha 😉
yuck, so rude of dancing queen!!! insecure, selfish and self-centered ppl who doesn’t care about ppl’s feelings but only on themselves.next time ask Fatty and ur guy friends don’t layan these kind of ppl.
last time in our group there’s a girl (A) who is pretty and is always in the limelight among the 3 of us girls (A, B & C). so other girls (D & E) tend to only speak only to (A), and only interested in (A) and while the 2 of us (B & C) are like invisible to (D & E). I found it so rude! girls to girls some more, not even guy!
anyhoo, hope u don’t get bothered about it anymore.. your day is too great to be spoilt by these ppl. 🙂
have a good day ahead, Aud!
I think lar, she actually got a crush on Fatty lor, that’s why she was ignoring you and focusing on Fatty only.
That also sucks. >.< And she was being super super rude. Even if that were the case, there’s no need to make it so obvious! (Why does that sound so bad too?) =.=
You have BIG Miao’s eyes in Dancing Queen photos~
jamilla: oh yea i heard a lot of shanghai women tend to be a bit spoiled and difficult with their bfs isit true? 🙁
carol: thanks carol!! ya surprisingly green and purple matched well D:
serene: awww thanks! hahaha yea i’ll blog about our love story one day…but shy la wtf
angel: haha was he named after yoshi in super mario too wtf
smoke: hahaha no we #addiction! superior to bffs wtf
rebeca: wow how did you get along with her? and was it cos she was insecure?
tze: no ur just being nice /shy which current hair this one ru sure don’t bluff!!!
strawberry: why you so fast write all this as though you already have in your head just waiting for an outlet hahahahahaha
cindy: haha i wanna buy more of the blazer in diff colors don’t have already!!!
tianchad: what’s miao hahaha cat ah! or akiraceo.com wtf
strawberry u damn funny la i think u should have your own blog wtf
I SEE BOOBS I SEE BOOBS
that is all wtf
Well, there seem to be a lot of girls out there trying to catch a rich man!
EH, tell you.
this reminds me.
not too long ago i got to know this girl. to cut a long story short she would only talk to pretty girls (which obviously doesn’t include me cos if it did i probably wouldn’t be aware that she had such a weird preference).
for that whole time i knew her i was kinda upset about it cos i felt like sad that i wasn’t pretty enough to be in that popular gang.
but then i snapped out of it and realized that, MADNESS. this is not secondary school. picking friends by looks is just plain crazy.
Your story about this girl reminds me of a hair saloon i always go with my bf.
One of the girl in the hair saloon always shows black face when i go to cut my hair with my bf and she only smiles and talks to my bf..WTF..
Aud, slap her! LOL! Walao ei. She don’t know your identity, is it? So rude one.
Tim is a very attractive man. He will definitely attract lots of girls. Good girls will admire you for having him. Bad girls will try to make him hers. Be confident in yourself and you will be fine.
i have the same Zara blazer but in navy blue. super in love with it 🙂 Is yours size xs or s? cause the small sizes ran out very fast.
Really like that first Instagram pic.
you look so different with your bangs to the side! 😀 (different, good!) and i like how you nicknamed her “dancing queen” lmao. there’s like, close to zero relation! also, i love your hair in the second photo after the one taken in the salon chair. how much is your colouring at shawn c usually?
ehh, forgot to say — YOUR DAD’S HILARIOUS!!! such a good sport, too.
Loving your new hairstyle. You’re looking mature yet sweet at the same time!Somehow you look prettier these days 🙂