I officially hate my extensions.
What was I thinking! I even considered taking a day trip to Singapore cos I heard extensions there are like $2 a strand.
But I must be out of my mind okay. Everytime I wash my hair I have to spend 10 mins and a whole palmful of conditioner just conditioning it so that when I comb it later, it won’t tangle.
Once in the early days when I first got extensions done, I didn’t put enough conditioner and I had to run back to the bathroom (this was after putting on pajamas and moisturiser) to rewet my hair and apply more conditioner. T______T
And another time (actually I can’t remember if this was when I had extensions or not) I remember I had this huge knot of hair behind my head that wouldn’t go away so Angela/my mum/forgot who had to cut it off. :((((((((
I so wanna cut my hair short.. but everybody’s getting bobs these days very mainstream okay. I hate being mainstream like for example I don’t read Kennysia cos it’s mainstream to do so wtf.
Plus I kind of want to have long hair for my convocation pictures…
But on the other hand I have an urge to cut it short and dye it blond – like platinum shiny blond wtf.
But on another hand wtf, my hair without extensions is like peach fuzz wtf.
Um any ideas?
Oh I know I’ve talked about this loads of times. But I must say again: I hate tall girls/girls who are more than 20 years old who act cute and innocent.
What more if they are both tall AND more than 20 years old.
I heard about this girl who is older than me who apparently bounces her index fingers off each other in a desperate attempt to seem childlike.
Why why! I seriously don’t understand why someone would feel the need to do that! Are they training their eyesight wtf because as you know, it isn’t easy to do that if you close one eye.
I’ve also heard a girl with no self-respect say:
“You have to act cute if not guys won’t like you.”
And then they wonder why girls don’t like them.
*weeps into hanky
Why do people like this still exist please go back to where you came from i.e. Tang dynasty wtf.
Can you imagine how demeaning is it to act cute or dumb just to be liked/get attention? Why would you lower yourself to such a level?
If you want to act that way, then expect to be treated like an inferior being by men ok. If you’re going to act like you have half the brains of normal humans, people are going to want to coddle you, yes, but they are also not going to give much importance to your opinions (not that it’s obvious you have any that are worthwhile) and they are fucking not going to respect you.
Fine, you could say the same for women who portray themselves as sexpots in order to get what they want. Yes it’s bad. But isn’t it worse to not only portray yourself as the weaker sex, but the dumber one as well?
This is 2007 ok. You want it to be what, one small step forward for mankind, one giant leap backward for womenkind ar wtf.
Like I said, using your femininity to get ahead is one thing; whatever it is, it’s still a man’s world – there will be men who will invariably look down on us just because we have more estrogen – and we women must employ whatever we can to stay on par. But to act cute and dumb to get attention?
Isn’t that very pathetic and kind of whore-y?
God I can’t believe how demeaning this is. I’m not really talking about acting cute, but acting like your IQ is lowered. I’m not saying us women should all put on our sweatshirts and recite Blake or Shakespeare, but for god’s sake, please have a bit of self-respect or dignity, and act like your mental development was normal/like a proper mature human being, if not for yourself, then for half the population of the world.
What did our foremothers fight for then! Get the right to vote for what, so you can point your stupid index finger at a man and say “whoever you think is best, dear.” wtf.
I also heard about a girl who has no self-respect that when people around her were talking about some serious topic, say politics, she whined and said “why are you talking about these kinda things…talk to meeeeee” *pulls on people’s sleeve wtf.
So help me god. Tell me the truth! Does anyone really feel it’s necessary to act this way to get male attention! Don’t have to put your real name but I need to knowww.
Maybe because being 4 feet 9 guarantees that people will automatically think I’m cute and thus I don’t have to go to further lengths to be thought of as such.
But I’d be so embarrassed even if I just saw someone acting that way, what more myself.
Especially if they’re tall! Imagine looking at the ground 5 and a half feet away from you and then twisting your body back and forth and pleading “feeeeed me please feed meeeee” WTF or whatever it is that act cute people like to do.
I already said countless times that tall people shouldn’t ever try to touch the territory of shorties, how are you supposed to be cute if you’re long and lanky.
Let me ask you, are basketball players cute? Are wrestlers cute? I rest my case wtf.
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hahahahaha. good one! i hate big-sized girls who act cute too. they must be thinking that we’re so prejudiced to think big-sized people cant act cute. really cannot what who ask them so big-sized??!!!
why would anyone want to get attention by acting stupid, why not be smart and impress them instead? i think this means to show that they’re really really stupid, not acting it.
luckily im short BUT smart. nyehehehehe!
Hi babe,
extension in SG aint that cheap thou.. $2 per stand are made from very bad quality thou but in any case if u r in SG.. Try J’s salon at Taya Wisma there… My gf went there and her extensions are fab. If not for a good one.. Try Jean yip $400 for 25 strands.. I had that and it was great.. Last me very long i would say… Anyway, Mid valley have got this hair training academy at the top floor.. the highest level near the food court there.. They do hair extension too.. my cousin had her done there.. not bad i would say plus the price is really reasonable.. Dont worry, thou they are students they wun burn your lock.. LOL… Have fun babe… Enjoy your weekend and as usual.. I cant help it but to enter your blog at least twice a day to check out for new updates.. Your blog is so real plus interesting!!! And it just make me miss K.L more… My relatives there.. Oowww… *EmO*… Lolz… Cheers
I am sorry to use this to leave you a comment.. Pardon me ya.. O HI by the way.. I am plus size too thou.. Hehe… i am also retailing plus size clothes thus i can easily count a handful of over 300 plus size girl… Seriously, i hardly see plus size girl acting cute.. at least 99.9% of my customers including myself DONT.. LOLz, most of them i see are pretty serious thou but i totally agree with you when i see someone who is plus size be it guy/gal acting cute.. i will go like … O…. M…. G….. Lolz… no offence thou, just personal thots… plus seriously, no one ask us to be so plus size but sometime we have no choice.. If one is borned short/fat/skinny/ugly… it’s all up to fate i guess…..
**sob sob sob**
PS: Please dont take it to heart but just that i personally feel that if someone choose to EAT themselves fat then i got no comments but soemtimes ppl are just borned to have extras hanging around them
Anyway, you take care too and have a fun weekend
hus*
Asian dumb blonde’s yo!
but why ar must be 20 yrs older?
haha!
hahahah die lah, I’m tall(and not lanky somemore T_T).. AND 20 years old. that means i only got one more year of acting cute! hahahaha kidding.
yeah i get you with that half a brains thing. What the fuckkkk i can’t believe that girl really tugged on someone’s sleeve and manja-ed “talk to meeeeeeeee”. Damn selfish. If she can’t open her mind to interesting things like politics(it’s almost as good as gossip) then just shut up and listen. Might learn a thing or two.
There was an article like this in Cleo once. about how some women are pretending to be dumb.
I damn boh song these type of women.
And yes, I feel like slapping women who are tall and old (hohoho, my peers but whatever) when they try to act cute. The type of slap that will make them slide to the other side of the room. Never try before, but might try it one day.
Sexpots.. meheheh, think I’ve ranted enough about those car models. Don’t need to prove your beauty so much. Just look decent, presentable, pretty… don’t have to sell out so much.
I’ve heard of guys who actually like girls who act demure and super duper lady like. Wah lau. Are we really expected to be submissive??/
I believe that being friendly and pleasant is good enough. If they want submissive and demure women, ask them to build a time machine and travel back in time to court their grandmother’s friends. (coz grandma and grandson would be incestuous, no?)
eh i’m short and slim but i never, ever in my life act cute on purpose before. in fact i act damn lan si and bitchy wtf
ya i hate those kinda girls also. especially girls who try so hard to get pimped on other ‘famous bloggers’ blogs and said ‘famous blogger’ who then pimps them for god knows what reason.
and ya la i am damn brainy ok wtf
I hate tall girls that try to dress cute!!! If you are tall like I don’t know what then find your own style okay ! Do you really think you need a ribon on your head to add up to your height wtfwtf ! I hate tall girls , or any girl, who run damn short distance in small steps while rocking their bodies left and right WTF And I hate girls who are old enough but still pretend that they don’t understand very simple dirty jokes esp when guys are around n they will go like “what are u talking about ? Sex ? You mean gender ? I’m a female” WTF WTF WTF.
and yea Aud Im’ the one who cut your hair, cuz thatz what I did with mine when my extensions were tangled. IM SO SICK OF MY EXTENSIONS ALSO HOW AR BUT I CANNOT FIND A NEW HAIR STYLE TO CHANGE INTO !!!
wtf. boycott!
Hi Audrey, you look absolutely cute/gorgeous/beautiful/feminine with your current hairstyle. i know after a while you mite want a change but long hair definitely suits you perfectly:)
So your Jap wannabe aka cawai style dressing and hairstyle is not mainstream? *rolls eye*
hi there.. stumbled upon your blog from blog surfing, and i totally agree!! i hate people who act cute. i feel like mincing them! arrghhh!!
OMG. you go lar woman! hahahahah. I’ve seen one girl in my college, she’s quite ffff.. *cough* erm plump. not cute at all. and then right, she was stomping her foot to 2 guys saying she doesnt wanna sit in front. it’s like wat the heck man.
tall ppl shouldnt even try to come into below five feet territory. LOL
Hahahahahahhaa good one Aud. Pleading while twisting body back and forth WTF. And I don’t read Kennysia.com not because it’s mainstream but for other reasons.
MainstreamGal: Are you saying that all the girls in Japan are acting cute? Please grow some brains that’s a style; acting cute means bouncing your index fingers off each other etc as stated above. Or spelling ‘girl’ as ‘gal’ wtf.
And wtf is cawai. Cawan mushi wtf. It’s Kawaii btw. YOU should know how it’s spelt of all people. And I salute you for being able to roll one eye I definitely can’t do that ler.
Ei mainstreamGAL ~ I swear you match almost every point in Aud’s blog thatz why you are so angry until you need to make such comment hahaahaha right right right ??? *nudge nudge*XD its okay la everyone can change~ have faith in yourself, you can start from spelling GAL as GIRL first. *winks both eyeS* wtf. And what do you mean by *rolls eye* wtf wtf wtf are you trying to hint that you are either dying like a dying fish or possessed?
she’s trying to be like u, an angel =)
wtf wtf
killer punch line wtf fruit punch wtf punch MainstreamGal in the stomach, knock the air out of her till she coughs up her spleen wtf
Awww…you gals are so mean 🙁
okay no fighting this is a neutral zone wtf.
ron: actually not just big girls, but smaller sized girls too that i can’t stand. just that its even more ridiculous if it’s a taller or bigger girl who’s trying to act all cute and childish!
shundy: thanks for your comment! u should come to kl more often la then haha. yea i heard about the MV one..it’s A Cut Above. But I dunno how good the quality is there.
siowmay: haha for no reason la, just that i had to state an age. like below 20 maybe u could still be excused for being immature.
jayelle: i agree. acting that way is just being close-minded and degrading not only to yourself, but to men because you’re assuming that they will get turned on by such behavior.
angie: hahaha i know who ur talking about in ur comment! and yea i dunno what style to change into either 🙁 hahahahaha ur comment damn funny! i love u babie T_T
kennysia: wtf hahaha are you boycotting me too wtf.
neonlight: haha eh don’t la i shy la wtf. well i still have to take off my extensions sooner or later, so my hair will definitely be shorter than my current length:)
mainstream gal: mainstream means identifying trends and then choosing to follow them because it is cool to do so. it’s definitely not cool to dress like i do, because everyone calls me ah lian. therefore you can’t say it’s mainstream because most people would rather die than be referred to as ah lian. and about being mean.. rolling eyes isn’t such a nice thing either, is it?:)
stef: right! i feel almost as annoyed as when reading abuot raja petra wtf.
goddess*: ya ya people like that la! *blood boils wtf
jiameei: thank u love /boo roll one eye hahahaha. no la mainstream gal prob has a good reason for saying it.
oowaterdropoo wtf: haha who is this! leroy isit?
tze: oh hahahaha dunno why i missed ur comment! but yalah u so bitchy at first until i got scared. u wouldn’t look me in the eye wtf. and what short ur the tallest of the club ok!
Oh GOSHHHHHHH, finally someone who said out loud what I’ve thought since I was 2 yrs old or so!
Act cute girls are the ultimate sickness. >_
What? My whole comment wasn’t posted. Whatever. 🙁 I think some kawaii Jap/Thai 23 yrs old woman in a fluffy lacey pink miniskirt that was just posing wide-eyed, damsel-in-distress style to the cam BANNED IT from being posted. 😀
I don’t have anything particularly against act-cute girls (since I am occasionally guilty of that in pictures.. T_T), as annoying as they are, but I do HATE girls who pretend to be weak/dumb/inferior/feminine in front of guys. PTUIIII!!!
snifff…i am tall!!!
and my bf thinks I am cute…
height discrimination!!
wtf…
human rights yo…hehe
love ur bitchy post…but hey, being bitchy is mainstream now isn’t it?
arghh…love what u posted anyway….
mich: who WAS that?
hui wen: haha acting cute in pictures is one thing, doing it on a daily basis towards males is another! ya ya especially those that act weak too!
ann-chan: haha you got me wrong! your bf thinks you’re cute has nothing to do with acting cute or helpless…get me? haha it’s not really about height…it would be bad seeing a short girl do it too…but imagine if you saw a tall girl acting childish…doesn’t it seem more incongruous?
the part about hating your extensions, i know exactly how u feel!
it hurts like a bitch when i wash my hair.. it hurts when i lie on bed so much so that these days i cannot even sleep on my back!
plus everytime i see hair strands fall, i’ll wonder if they’re my hair or the extensions hair. please let it not be mine, amen.
and, and! ever since my friend told me that hair extensions are some dead chick’s hair, i was *gulps* pretty much freaked out.
whyohwhy did i put on hair extensions!
All this talk about hair extensions is making me lose my macho-ness.
O ya… it’s called ” A Cut Above ‘… u got it right.. Can try.. the quality is 100% far better than those $2 in SG i would say… Hehe…
PS: Unless they burn your lock, if not i wouldn’t be responsible for other stuff… Oops oops.. Nah, i am JUST KIDDING… It’s FRIDAY!!! Time to chill.. Ya, i go back to KL like 5 tims a year.. Each time not missing shoes from Vincci and Nose… wOHOooOoOO… Nothing is cheap in SG… sIgh…. I simply Heart Mid Valley and the Boulevard hotel beside… The rooms are soooooooooooooooooooooo NICE… hehe… .
hey..U act cute too wat when u are taking pictures,or u just look cute in nature. U look cute effortlessly lar, is ur trademark.
do u have any problems wit guys acting cute? i like to act cute to get gals attention. when tehy r talikn bout hair extention, shopping or make up, I’ll whined and said “why are you talking about these kinda things…talk to meeeeee” *pulls on people’s shirt.
wahahahahaha……..
WTF WTF WHO IS oowaterdropoo wtf wtf !!
kenny: haha say hello to the razzle dazzle world of girliness
*waits patiently for another flamer to come by* wtf
WOOTS AUD!
hear hear, amen *clinks glass solemnly*. there is a fundamental difference in being honestly adorable in an endearing sense, and the sickly saccharine vapid kind of sweet/cute. i’m doing a feminist subject now, so i’m all for female empowerment. its sad how even us as females have subjected ourselves to submit to male-centric discourses by acting all flighty and fluffy. i feel like bitch slapping women who intentionally make themselves look stupid to get attention.
i know what you mean about the short hair now though. shits! everyone’s got short hair, so potong stim la. i wanna get my locks lopped off again, it’s too bloody hot. bah. see how see how.
i am angry all over again just reading ur post!
and i am angry that i allow myself to get angry over someone like her. grrrr.
You’re an idiot.
And asian of course, so you’re dellusional.
I know you’re a midget and jealous of taller people but, tall girls are DEFINITELY more attractive than you midgets. And to top it off you’re asian, so you’re ugly.
been reading your blog from suetli’s.
Was LOL’ing when I read this entry cause it reminded me of someone I actually know who fits the whole profile of being tall and uh, dumb.
on top of being tall and blonde, acting “CUTE” just made her look
her look even dumber than she already is.
Best part is, she ACTS smart and like a know-it-all when she doesn’t have a clue what she is talking about.
that’s how she gets attention from guys … stupid ones will fall for it, smart ones call her a dumb blonde 😛
wow.seriously?i mean..SERIOUSLY?? u think only short girls can be cute?? how shallow bitch u r.. r u jealous with tall girls cuz they got the nicest legs in the world while u have SHORT FAT legs? sheesh. u wanna know what i hate? shallow bitch, jealous short girls that acts cute with hello kitty stuff n rants about tall ladies out there. n”how are you supposed to be cute if you’re long and lanky.” what the fuck is this? i havent seen stupidest complain ever like this in my life.bodoh lg bangan
Really???? This gets me upset. Saying tall girls shouldn’t act like that. First of all tall isn’t considered 5’5″. Second of all, are you short? People hate on me all the time because of the nervous habits I have. I’m not going to change myself because you think tall people shouldn’t act cute. What? Only short people how stereotypical is that.