AudAngry

Dellusional

Last year I wrote a post *click* on how much I hated girls who felt the need to act cute or dumb to get guys’ attention or approval.

I felt it was very demeaning (maybe because I graduated from Mt Holyoke wtf) for girls to portray themselves the dumber or weaker sex because I don’t think there is a need to at all.

I think by acting cute, girls are not only demeaning themselves but the men they are surrounded by as well.

Men today deserve a lot more credit than that — I think I am right in saying that men appreciate an intelligent funny girl, someone they can have meaningful conversations with a lot more than a girl who “sa jiaos” or whines or acts cute with nothing substantial to say.

What makes it even worse is that if the girl does NOT look cute or petite but still tries to act cute!  Why would you do that? Maybe if you look like a child, you think (wrongly) that the only way you can align your looks and your behavior thus getting people to like you more is if you ACT like a child.

But what if you don’t?  What if you look like a perfectly normal, maybe attractive young woman?  Why would you want to pout and bounce your fingertips T__________T Maybe to your boyfriend ok la during your private time but to your colleagues and acquaintances? T____________T

And today someone (a bit slow wtf) left a comment in reply to that entry.

Lemme paste it here.

Sam says:

  1. You’re an idiot.
    And asian of course, so you’re dellusional.

    I know you’re a midget and jealous of taller people but, tall girls are DEFINITELY more attractive than you midgets. And to top it off you’re asian, so you’re ugly.

Okay so now the issue isn’t about girls acting cute but about being racist wtf.

I never said tall girls weren’t attractive.  Please learn how to read.

Being Asian equates being ugly huh?  This person is clearly an Asian hater.

And who can’t spell “delusional’ right.

I can’t stand racists!

Sam should just have been in Mumbai instead of all those other innocent people *BIG SIGH

Comments (42)

  • hi hi….visiting ur blog here…remember me still?

  • SUPPORT AUDREY 100%!!!

    Most unbelievable is, if I act tomboy right, those people so many problems(I don’t know how they put their brains, maybe the nerves USB put wrong lah), they say “You better act cute lor, so waste your nice cute face”.

    I really hate people try to control(indirectly by comment something that’s so make us volcano eruption) our life lor. All we have to do is Endure =O, ganbatte Audrey!

    Oh it’s my first time comment in here. =D Please don’t hate me. (T ^T)

  • eh thanks for linking that entry ‘cos I found the line that I was looking for wtf.

    “I hate being mainstream like for example I don’t read Kennysia cos it’s mainstream to do so wtf.” – Audrey, July 2007.

    HOR! 😛 Boycott!

  • You’re asian ,so ur ugly. Haha Maybe this girls bf dumped her for some asian girl or something. lol

  • well women should be lucky that you could use it to your advantage and it doesnt matter cause guys are dumb enough to fall for it all the time 😀 …totally fine with it..JUST dont overdo it ok? keep it minimal/subtle…oh, i think this is more of an asian thing…originated frm japan with all those kawaiiness/hellykittyness…and i quote “wtf”.

  • wahrao. asian means ugly @_@ the fella wanna die is it.

  • wow that guy is either idiotic or stupid.

    (if you have to think twice about what i’m saying then you’re a real idiot too btw)

    i hate twits too!

  • oh btw when will the LG KF350 be launched in msia and then singapore? o.o

  • Sam must be punished.

    =D

  • he is slow. really. LOlz. now only comment on last year’s post?
    anyways, definitely an Asian hater. Asian girls hater??? wth. really wanna die commenting such thing.
    and a person who dont know how to spell delusional wanting to say others DELLUSIONAL. =.=”

  • faster finish your exams so we can hang out!!! =D asia cafe yum char wtf.

  • and i hope with my wtf presence u’ll be rid of all negative presence in ur life WTF at least for 3 months ok! my mission wtf. i miss my happy ah sou wtf.

  • vialentino: of course i remember you!

    kaede: comment more better! and why u say nerves USB wrong AHAHAHAH damn cute!

    kennysia: AIYA JUST KIDDING LA WTF. and where did i say that in the post i didn’t see also!

    julian: that is a possible reason!

    wisdom32: but what sam is saying doesn’t make sense. sam is most probably a non-asian but she sounds like she’s advocating acting cute (for non-asians too?)

    gin: ya i think there are more asians in the world than non-asians if sam wants a fight. we have china and india ok wtf.

    grace: ya twists waste oxygen!

    kelly: what do u suggest!

    christyn: yalah is dellusional a Dell model wtf.

    meimei: awwwww ah mei/boo i am happy already la how can i not be happy for long!

  • poor guy who is still being delusional by old colonial ideologies. my sympathies.

  • Apparently, your malicious commenter need to put down “midgets” and Asians in order to make themselves feel good. Rather pitiful and not worth your time, Audrey. This person clearly forgot that the KKK became uncool many years ago. 😉

  • WTF I AM SO ANGRY, AUDREY AND AUDREY FANS LETS ALL GANG UP (only if u r asian, or short like ME I AM BOTH) AND BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF SAM

  • Motherfucker. I’m a quarter Korean, does it mean I’m QUARTER UGLY??? Hahahhaha xD He can go die wtf.

  • dellusional hahaha
    why is arizona filled with so many crazy asian haters! sigh that’s why i hate the states sometimes but thank god im in the east

  • erm i went to check the dictionary coz dunno what is delusional wtf
    hahhaahaaha then i realized no DELLUSIONAL onli got delusional.

    btw yr post really funny i can laugh until die wtf
    even angry also damn kao funny.

  • there’s another kind of people – i say people cos im not a sexist – that i cant stand more than your presumed ‘act cute’ breed… those who r hypocrites. audrey, u claim that u cant stand those girls who act cute, but i think most people who read n know u know u r the ESSENCE…d epitome of acting cutesy okay. seriously, u r in like what…ur mid 20s but dont even try AT LEAST a bit harder to compensate for your 15 year old look… ur ‘act’ n pose screams acting cutesy…n then u go n condemning people who r carbon copies of your ‘type’…if u want to typecast people…please look urself into d mirror n think for at least 3 seconds. there’s a saying that someone who despises some people the most is because that particular person/people remind he/she in question of…yup…themselves.

  • hi
    my first comment here ^^
    the world is full of racist
    a whole bunch of racist around me…haha…
    just ignore them ^^

    btw
    あなたのブログはホントにおもしろい^^

  • Stop Hating: Need to clarify something here. Audrey NEVER said “you cannot act cute”. What she meant was girls should be MORE than just acting cute and “sa jiao” and girls who are BOTH intelligent and cute are often more attractive than the merely superficially “CUTE” ones. And please don’t deny the fact that it definitely is foolish and unpleasant for a tall/big size woman to pout and waddle, unless, of course, you are one of those.

  • wow i don’t get it.. if audrey’s so ugly, a midget, tries too hard to be cute, a hypocrite and a 101 other shitty things in the world, why do every one of you haters bother coming to her blog to read about how superficial she is and irritate the shit out of yourself? if you obviously made up your mind that she’a a fucking idiot, doesn’t that make you a bigger idiot to be wasting your precious time on such a blog and a person? why do you want to associate yourself with audrey and most of all why do u even bother to read her blog if she’s such a hypocrite la? worst.. you even bother to comment! HAHAHAHAHA. it’s not like she shoved fourfeetnine.blorc at your face and forced you to read it. are u a fucking retard or what? u can’t even make your own choice to not give a shit about such a “hypocritical” person is it? as far as i’m concerned aud’s a great friend and an extremely genuine person. if she ever is superficial don’t you think her parents or her closer friends ought to be one to tell her off since their the ones who knows her best and are reading her blog as well? if you don’t know audrey well enough to comment on her attitude and has such nasty things to say about her without even getting to know her in person, please do us all a favour.. shut the fuck up. it’s fucking sad to know that people like you exist, who seem to find joy in posting anonymous comments and trying to bring audrey down. grow the fuck up.

  • WAHHHHH i feel the urge to stuff a prong up that guy’s nostrils wtf. just because we’re short don’t mean we’re ugly ok !! and many asians are really pretty too ! stupid racist >E

  • is there a rally against us ah my love cuz even now when my blog is locked i still get flamers saying i damn ugly and that i should get plastic surgery what nonsense wtf.

    stop hating: wow you’re true to your name wtf. i assume you are either stupid or retarded because anyone who knows audrey just knows that she is not very capable of acting cute. she’s as real as it gets in this stupid world right now but of course why would i know better than you, psycho who probably hasn’t met her?

  • wow wow.. why is everyone hating Asian huh? what is wrong of being Asian?? haters nowadays just doesn’t make sense at all.. -_-”’

  • u’re hypocrite.
    seriously..

  • i am fine with people acting cute as long as not over-acting.
    but you?? you don’t have to act, I already can’t resist thinking how cute you are..

    Some people only act but no substance..
    but you, substance over form…
    Form already cute…substance cute+smart

    Gosh..I’m supposed to revise for my exams next week…
    anyway, thanks for your few updates these days ^V^.. reducing my stress level.

  • what’s wrong with being asian???

  • I know why Sam so piss ad.. he was searching for fourfeetnine.com the Midget porn site ! but end up in the wrong site. He ad get his pants off ready to jerk but wrong blog pulak.. hahaha

  • hello guys sorry im gonna bypass everyone else first and reply the stop hating hater wtf.

    stop hating: if there’s one kind of people i hate more than girls who act cute it’s people who DON’T READ.

    i said i can’t stand girls who act cute, which is true. i can’t stand them. but the keyword here is ACT not look. i have no problem with girls who look cute because i think the world is better off with more goodlooking people in it.

    i don’t think you have the right to judge me for being cute because anyone who knows me in real life knows that as tze said i act more like a boy than a “cutesy” girl. just because you think i look cute on my blog doesn’t mean i ACT cute in person.

    besides, my point was having the intelligence and wit to back yourself up rather than speaking to people with nothing substantial behind your words which is exactly what you are doing.

  • edward/marcus/merv/whatever: ya ya speak to the hand wtf

  • Who say that huh… You are cute and beautiful and still cute! You are perfect wakaka…

  • Nah, ignore that Sam. To me, Sam is a symptom of boredom and low self-esteem, not to mention a shallow spirit that focuses on the shortcomings of others rather than face what’s lacking within.

  • audrey, read this! its on hidden racism against asian-americans…

    http://www.racialicious.com/2008/11/20/no-im-not-crazy/

  • stop hating: hahah..but audrey is cute what!! like naturally cute *o* sometimes i wanna take her home and play dress up doll with her.. wtf

  • eh ah sou i thought we were fucking retarded and stupid but guess what, we’ve found so many others who’ve surpassed our stupidity wtf should we feel threatened? is comparing aud at the expense of her best friend respectful? even if suet is as bimbotic as you perceive her to be, i don’t think it’s as shameful as being such a spiteful, judgmental, jealous person to pass such nasty comments. does it make u feel very accomplished and powerful for putting others down?

  • mike: im talking about being in the east coast of the states cause ppl are less racist here. which is true

  • Mike: what the fuck does Suet’s comment have to do with acting cute? it’s not a blond or dumb statement to admit that the US is still pretty racist (see McCain/Palin rallies), and it’s true that the east coast is more liberal and diversified than Bumfuck, USA (see the overwhelming support for a half-black candidate). jesus, mike, stop acting cute.

  • man what an idiot=SSS I hate racists too~ and just for the record, asians are beautiful=D

  • to be honest…everyone’s a racist..the only difference is the level of racism between them…and hey, we have a lot of racist among ourselves asians too! like we have the chinese hating the japs, the koreans looking down on south east asians, and what not..no need to go so far..just look at msia…i rarely see group of friends that consist of different ethnicity except frm indian-chinese..but other than that..RARE! oh btw, i have to agree with sweatlee that the east coast are more “minority” friendly but if u dig down deeper… u will get a lot of white supremacist groups..since many of cities in the east coast are highly populated so ud get a really culturally diverse population..not to miss out california too… just go to SF the Bay Area..and omg!! ud be shock to see how many people of asian ethnicity there are…and then again…theres also racism among asians themselves mainly racial based gang wars..just walk down the streets of LA at night u will get what i mean

  • There are haters everywhere.. 🙁

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