Sigh.
Okay I have to clarify things.
Actually, no I don’t really. None of the 3 people involved in this — Tim, Angela and I — really have any obligation to make ourselves clear to anyone. But since I’ve chosen to make my life public by writing a blog, this is what I have decided to do.
I am very amazed and saddened by the things that have been written in the comments in the last post. Since when was it okay to insult and make fun of people, not only towards Tim but against others in the comments?
Here’s what really happened.
I had a pretty tough week at work; a couple of things happened to make me upset and I had no time at all to blog. So I gave Tim the password to my blog and told him to put in a new entry so I could have something to read and look forward to by the end of the week.
It’s always been a long-running joke between Tim and Angela about who is my true soulmate — it’s something that Tim always disturbs Angie about.
Some people never find their soulmate ever in their lives but I think that I am lucky enough to be blessed by two. A soulmate is supposed to be one special person meant for you but I think in Tim & Angela I’ve found mine. Tim because he could be meant for me (but I don’t wanna jinx it wtf), and Angela because it’s as though there was a piece of clay in heaven 24 years ago which was supposed to make one girl but god chopped that clay into half and made two.
So Tim and Angela have always had play arguments on who wins and gets to be my soulmate.
And when I asked him to write a post, he came up with that entry to tease Angela more.
Yes, of course it was a joke. If it wasn’t he wouldn’t have admitted it was him in the end. He wouldn’t have said okay Angela wins. And if he didn’t know how much Angela meant to me he wouldn’t be able to describe our friendship so well in the first paragraphs.
The unfortunate thing was, he wrote it too seriously that everyone took it for real including Angela. I knew from the start when I read my own blog that it was a joke because duh I didn’t write this. But maybe it wasn’t clear to people out there.
Another thing was he had horrible timing because Angela is going through a tough time but I thought her life is her own business and I didn’t tell anyone including him. I really really wish that I could be there for her in Canada now but I can’t so right now we’re both missing each other a lot right now. So when this happened I guess she really took it seriously. Sorry babie that I have to say in public that you are going through a tough time right now that’s why you were affected so much by it. 🙁
So that’s the story. It may have been childish of him but it has been joked about for months now just that it went overboard this time.
This should be between us only but Angela has made it clear that she knows it was a joke and Tim has apologized to her after realizing that she was seriously upset.
But I was just very upset by the things that some of you said. He was wrong to take the joke so far but who of us have not made mistakes or said anything wrong or hurtful in their lives? Please just think about that for a minute. He was harsh in writing that but I think a lot of the comments were far worse.
I myself have often thoughtlessly said things that hurt the people closest to me but I was lucky that they loved me enough to forgive me.
I wish for the sake of all 3 of us that none of this has happened but it has. And this is something I blame myself for because I brought this upon myself and my loved ones by choosing to put my personal life into a blog.
Comments (87)
Hi aud, i just wanna throw hugs 🙂 Luv you, i’ll come back whenever i’ve time. looking forward to your next post!
Omg! Can’t believe Tim is so childish!
I’ve been reading your blog only a short while, but i can see that your a girl that everyone wanted to loves you and have you as a true friend/soulmate.
Dun worry about the comments,afterall you cannot control what ppl say/think, and you cannot please everyone.
Take Care *hugz*
bad timing i guess
but if it’s any comfort, when i read it, it really didn’t come across as anything negative but something like dry humour/insider’s joke/funny post : )
hope you guys patched up and angela is on her way to getting through tough times. add oil!
whatever need to be clarify been done and sorry been apologized.. let’s move on, wishes all the best to our lovely couple and angie get through the tough time soon… luv
Cheer up Audrey, some people just can’t take a joke!
Aud,
As i do read Tim’s blog, I knew it was a joke and I does think it’s rather funny but a lil overbroad with the words that he applied in the post.
However, I was really sad that Angie got upset and cried over this. But it’s no big deal I guess, everyone should just get over this.
=)
Cheers everyone 😉
eeehh, is it really REAL fat her posting comment??
lol..
actually this joke about Audrey, Tim and Angela already going on pretty while, eh?
i remember reading Tim’s post about he wanted to change his status on facebook to In Relationship with Aud, but then turned out Aud already engaged to Angela..LoL
i think it’s only matter of us, as a human being with different sense of humour la..
didn’t mean u who think this has crossed the line have bad sense of humour, okay..but every single person has their own of point of views of what’s funny and what’s not..
nothing serious le..
hey aud. first time commenting here! i guess the public will have something to criticise no matter what you say. its as if they really know u. they don’t even know shit abt u! but its ok, what doesn’t kill you make you stronger yeah! to hell with critics, if u don’t cause drama, ure boring. if u cause drama, they’ll leave hate comments. sigh! these people are hard to please
I’m a fan of tim’s and aud’s blog and I found the last entry was just so-audrey and so-tim. I didn’t expect that entry would turn up so serious. I think it was overall okay only SOME of the commenters took too serious of it. I do not think that they have the rights to judge tim as they’re neither aud, tim nor angela. Some even spit vulgarities what the hell? Who’s being NASTY there? Come on! Tim had already realized his fault and had apologised. And Angela had announced that it was okay, didnt she? Yea she had a tough time but how on earth that tim would know? Think of what others feel before being NASTY. Think of how awkward Audrey could be ‘cos both of tim and angela are her soulmates? I hope this is not offensive to those NASTY commenters.
Good day, Audrey!
It’s no big deal. Look at the bigger picture people. dont be over demanding.
and Aud, I have always love reading ur blog. sometimes it made my day. thank u!
i think your boyfriend should try to stop be funny because joking is jussssttt not his profession.i guess he intimidate people more den making people laugh.
I have one word to say about Tim and that’s “CHILDISH”.
*Sigh*
Seriously what’s the big deal here? People can be so weird.
yeah I thought some of the comments were pretty harsh on that last post (including ones about how it was just really funny..) I agree with puripuri, btw
actually, I was a bit weary of the post. mostly because I didn’t think Audrey would ever do something like that, and it’d be humiliating to Angela all public like this. but as I was reading I forgot about all that and pretty much believed it. :/
So hopefully this is over now and everyone can get along and carry on with their lives and be happy! = )
When Time blogged about his 6 months anniversary, that’s it! Everyone was laughing because this 6 month anniversary thing comes from gals not guy! Then in his blog, he doesn’t know the word proceeding is indeed correct and try to correct to prosecution! Proceeding means to institute legal proceeding. It’s a legal term! What kind of CEO is he? Now I know some CEOs are stupid, childish and girlish!
eg: im going to be honest with you. usually i approve all comments because i believe in freedom of speech. however i do delete comments which are uncalled for and baseless. yours is both but i’m replying to it because i think you need someone to tell you that you’re being petty, stupid and childish.
1. who’s time? wtf
2. tim blogged about our 6 month anniversary because i asked him to do the couple meme. a meme which many guys have done including martian, ky and my brother. are you laughing at them too?
3. so what if he doesn’t know if proceeding is the right word? proceeding also has other meanings than that. it should be a lawyer who would know this word for sure, not a CEO right?
4. you said “Proceeding means to institute legal proceeding.” don’t you mean ‘initiate’ instead of ‘institute’? does that mean you’re stupid too?
Hey Audrey,
I really enjoy reading both you and Tim’s blogs and I didn’t see the big deal in the whole drama. Hope you guys have a good weekend ahead, and keep blogging. I miss your Project365 ):
Aud, don’t stop pouring your heart out and sharing with us your personal life because that’s what makes fourfeetnine.com what it is today! 😀
It’s nice to joke around among friends but I guess some people are just not looking at it in ur perspective sometimes…
And I felt so honored to be your reader when you said “this post is just a courtesy extended to the people who have been reading.”
Just wanna say thanks and keep doing what you’re doing coz in the end, it is what you think that really matters =)
eg is stupid
cheers babe and i love your retort towards eg’s comment. =)
EG has a point. I mean how could Tim do this to Aud? Even shocked me further when he conveniently brushed it off as a joke leaving Aud in this predicament. What was he thinking when he used Aud’s password to write that blog?
I disliked the fact he blogged about more intimate things given readers an impression that he has sex with Aud.
I have to agree with EG that Tim is a childish guy.
So, Grace and Mindy should have a mind of their own, not just agree with Aud for the sake of agreeing.
Wtf wtf where’s Yeff’s bro when you need him to crack an insensitive racist joke that will distract everyone from this Wah Lai Toi drama?
Estelle: We have a mind of our own and i never said EG was stupid / EG was wrong. I just liked Aud’s retort as it does sound good. Well, at least to me.
And you should have a mind on your own too, ie: Mind your own business.
And so what if you think Tim’s childish. He’s not yours and u’re not in a position to even comment on him. It’s all up to Aud’s decision. We’re all just onlookers.
I never stepped into their argument, was just commenting that i love Aud’s way of retorting.
Mindy, why don’t you just open your mind and shut your mouth? Both are empty anyway.
and since they’re empty why are u responding to empty comments coming from an empty mind. Oh.. :O
Oh.. are u jealous of Aud’s life or smth. Hmmm..
and first u ask us to have a mind of our own, now u want me to open up my mind. wow that’s kinda contradictiiiiing isnt it.
hello everyone i would appreciate it if you don’t resort to insulting or flaming each other on this:) this case is closed and i think everyone has the right to have their own views and convey their thoughts in a reasonable manner but it’s not right to insult each other especially on my blog:(
haih… wat la… small thing niah… lov u guys ! 🙂
angie cried becoz she felt touched from wat is written in the beginning, which i felt touched too. being able to describe and define so well the rlnshp that aud have with angela, proves that tim loves her very much to know her feelings towards angie..and understand it.
tim didnt mean anything bad, he was only playing a joke.yeah..his act a bit childish but LOVE did make a person childish sometimes (for me, most of the time).
clearly that Tim loves aud… angie and aud loves each other too, that they understand their frenshp so well and would understand tis is only a joke…. so wats up with those busybody outsider who dont really understand anything.. but trying to insult ppl like tat leh?
OMG. ppl are just too sensitive. Even if the post Tim made was a bit “heavy” in the beginning, the joking part should have clarified everything.
And also, it was stupid for ppl to take angela’s side just cuz she said she cried.
Ya, she prob cried when she read the first part, but as the joke was clarified and since she knows what type of boyfriend her best friend is dating, she prob just left that comment just to be mean to him as a response to his “mean” post.
It’s not really a big, life-altering situation. And the 3 of them will probably be laughing about this in a month or so.
So just chilllllllllax
*hero tune* wtf
the name Mindy reminds me of Bobby Tung’s girlfriend whom he met while hunting for a Vitata Card in Ragnarok Online wtf
btw, did u guys hear about the black guy who died on kesas highway?
apparently he stuck his head out of the window at 200kmh and his lips beat him to death wtf
I couldn’t comment on the previous post so I’ll just do it here. From what I’ve read, though I didn’t really read what was the harsh comment that some of them leave, people can be pretty weird, they leave comment and didn’t even leave their links or name, this is what they best do. They might say, explaining is useless, but at least we are honest about what’s really going on, unlike those that like to assume based on what they read. I personally thinks that it’s only tim and angie jokes that both of them make to make fun of one another, so I don’t see why people are commenting on it saying it’s not funny, and not that I think it’s funny..But, erm.. in a way yes because I find it cute as the bf and the best friend getting along well and joking with one another. and in another way, no because I understand angie might get pretty upset because she misunderstood, well, who doesn’t? But they will forget about this soon and starting to tease one another again, so I don’t see why people are trying to act so ‘smart’ like they know them well.hmmm….
cheer up 🙂