Title like so drama like that lolol.

Here’s my formspring story.

Bobo for one or two years already had been asking me to join Formspring cos she’s always been quite active on it apparently.

I always said don’t want la cos I was like why would I want to go there and answer people’s questions like very free like that.  Probably the same thing my mom says about Twitter – “who’s so free to go and write about what they’re doing in 140 characters or less” hahaha.

Then one day I realized people like Sophie, QQ and Wendy all were talking about it.  I was like eh isn’t that the site Bobo is always talking about why so much interest let me go check it out like any good blogger wtf.

So I created an account, tested it out…  Not bad wor, I thought.

A big reason why I blog is because I like making jokes and be entertaining.  And formspring seemed like a nice alternative to have because it took up less time than creating a blog entry, and I already had a topic to answer to, no need to think of what to write about.  I also thought it was easier to be funny on fs just because what I wrote had to be bite sized.

So for a couple of weeks I played formspring lo.  Also let’s be honest, formspring lets you talk about yourself unabashedly and who doesn’t like that?

I expected trolls but there weren’t that many actually!

Got some dumb questions here and there and repeated questions which I’d have to answer more than once but issokay.  Fatty and Ooib and Kehrole started playing it too (and Strawberry WTF) and we all formed a nice funny formspring community.

Then the horrors had to come into play wtf.

I saw this on Ooib’s fs one day.

Snake what snake what!  Seriously she thinks I’m stupid in the first place is it get “snaked” by people to be best friends??

I was so angry because firstly, who is this person to comment on the breakdown of a relationship that happened between two people she does not know and has never met in her life?

Secondly, what right again does she have to say that Suet “snaked” me into being friends again?  Again she knows neither of us! With that one line, she implied that:

1. Suet is a snake wtf

2. I’m stupid enough to believe a “snake’s” lies and that after that I or Suet (can’t tell who she means) are pretending nothing happened

3. I’m not close enough to Ooib to talk to him about what happened in their relationship.  Even if I did talk to him, I’m still stupid because I was still eaten by Suet the snake (or whatever metaphor she has in mind)

THEN.  I saw this in my formspring inbox.

WTF!!! Talk about snakes lo!

I cannot believe this person has the audacity to leave identical questions in both our formsprings to get our reactions? As though create trouble on one front is not enough, she had to come  to my formspring to try to incite there as well.

Like I said before, how can she presume to know what exactly happened between the three of us?  Was she a fly on a wall?  Did she install cameras in our house wtf.

Just because none of us spoke out publicly about this does not mean nothing happened.  Suet and Ooib went back and forth for a year or so, trying to figure themselves and their relationship, and of course it was a painful process.

It was also very painful for me because I was caught in the middle between my younger brother whom I guess I’m quite protective over, and my best friend. I was angry and upset at Suet and for a year or so we fought continuously — I was angry and sad, she was sad and dealing with guilt and the prospect of losing my friendship in addition to her relationship.

But this was none of anybody’s business except ours so of course we never mentioned it.  Until this fucker came along.

Then the fella further replied with this…

Serious dafug??? Was she part of the relationship? So clever to say that she knows why Suet and Ooib broke up? Her stupid alleged reason wasn’t even true!!!

Some more she dare say I should not abuse her because she did not do anything to me.  Trying to create trouble between me, Ooib and Suet is not doing anything to me!? And what of her abusing Suet anonymously, in public?  If she can do that, why can’t Ooib or I abuse her back?

Hypocrite.

These were the comments left by Carol and Suet in response.  Suet was particularly upset because she doesn’t have my rhino skin and not used to disgusting subhuman specimens lurking around wtf.

And then there were all these anonymous questions left abusing Wendy also.  When I responded to them and told them off, I got further anonymous comments saying that I should not have published those.  What? I like to publish so I can scold them cannot? Urgh cannot win.

Then last night I got this.

Seriously -_________-

This one I really got angry and answered with expletives wtf which I kind of regret.

Cos this idiot sounded so presumpteous and smug! What’s with the “can we conclude” WTF?

And who is “everyone”? How can she conclude this when everyone I know sends in job applications through their contacts!?

Stop kidding yourself la.  I don’t know if he/she is lying la, possibly not but then how would I know?  Didn’t even leave a name it could be anyone for all I know, and I would never know if what this idiot is saying is true.

I don’t get the logic at all! Then what if you send resumes through jobstreet or jobsdb? Are those not connections too?  Or headhunters?  What on earth is supposed to be bad about sending in resumes through people you know!?

There are even companies who reward employees who pass on their friends’ resumes and their friends get hired.  Then what are they doing? Bribery isit?

Her logic numbs the mind wtf.

And seriously so what if he/she got their job by themselves? How does that make them better than everyone else?  Does that prove that you’re more capable, more honest, a better team player, a kinder person? No it doesn’t.

Then someone else said this..

So I replied the above.

Then I got the below.

God.

This makes me lose faith in humanity a bit wtf.

I always thought people were inherently nice or relatively intelligent that they can be reasoned with. Formspring proved me wrong wtf.

Although there have been tons of nice and insightful comments (sometimes unwarranted cos I think they view me in a better light than what I really am), I didn’t realize there were also so many judgmental souls in the world.  People who are so quick to jump to negative conclusions about others, so eager to think badly of other people.  And people ever so ready to leave an anonymous sentence or two to try to anger or hurt others.

Wendy and Qiuqiu always talk about The Secret, which bases its theory on the law of attraction.  Law of attraction states that if you surround yourself with positivity (think positive, do positive, be happy for others, etc) positivity comes back to you, and vice versa.

Of course I don’t know if it’s true but I like to believe it is.  It can’t be healthy thinking and doing negative pessimistic things what, even if bad things don’t necessarily happen to you.

But if the law of attraction is true, f all the people above’s lives wtf cos they’re just screwing themselves.

I really don’t need to listen to all this and get irritated by hypocritical cowards lo 🙁 Already not much free time want to spend it on this unpleasant shit ah!

So Imma quit it.  At least for now.  Babai!